Glossary entry

English term or phrase:

become a bit of a joke with us

English answer:

it's become a bad "joke" that remains a sore point for us

Added to glossary by Yvonne Gallagher
Mar 26, 2017 10:33
7 yrs ago
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English term

become a bit of a joke with us

Non-PRO English Other General / Conversation / Greetings / Letters
Hello everyone,

https://www.businessesgrow.com/2016/03/01/customer-feedback/

“Hello.

I’m writing to request a refund on a bouquet of David Austen roses that my husband ordered and bought specially from your Melbourne store yesterday (April 14). The bouquet was wilted and the flowers were spotted and browning—I can bring them back and return them.

It’s also important that you know why this is so disappointing. A year ago I ordered my wedding bouquet from your store and as per email below, Nicholas promised me David Austen roses. My heart sank a little on the morning of our wedding day when I opened my bouquet box and found standard roses instead. Nicholas had promised me an “exquisite” bouquet and I was disappointed but naturally I chose to focus on having a happy day instead and it was such a great day that I was euphoric for weeks after! However later on our honeymoon the niggling picked up and I confided in my husband that the only thing I’d change from our wedding day was my bouquet and became a little obsessed with wanting to call up and ask why I was not provided the promised David Austen roses—naturally it’s ***become a bit of a joke with us***.

So my poor husband was trying to “make things right” by...

Does "become a bit of a joke with us" simply imply that she didn't received what she'd expected or does it mean that those roses were also of bad quality?
Or does it imply anything else?

Thank you.
Change log

Mar 26, 2017 23:07: Daryo changed "Level" from "PRO" to "Non-PRO"

Mar 27, 2017 14:11: Yvonne Gallagher Created KOG entry

Votes to reclassify question as PRO/non-PRO:

Non-PRO (3): Tony M, AllegroTrans, Daryo

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Responses

+6
49 mins
Selected

a running joke that's really not about something funny

"a bit of a joke" is similar to a complete joke/total joke meaning bad or farcical but not in a good way. So yes, it's a bit of a "running joke" between her and her husband because the incident is referred to so often.
the "joke" is about totally inadequate service

She was promised an “exquisite” bouquet for her wedding but insead got standard" or run-of--the-mill flowers so she was disappointed on the day but tried to enjoy it anyway.
But now, much later, she remains disapointed and this has turned into a non-funny "running joke" about the bad service that remains a sore point and something she wishes she could change about her wedding...it may not seem like much to be so upset about but as a bride, expecting everything to be perfect, she was cruelly disappointed on the day...
Peer comment(s):

agree Graeme Jones
1 hr
Many thanks:-)
agree AllegroTrans : a not funny event, in reality
1 hr
Thanks Chris! Yes, nothing at all funny about it...a constant thorn in the side
agree Lingua 5B
2 hrs
Many thanks:-)
agree Tony M
2 hrs
Many thanks:-)
agree Yasutomo Kanazawa
3 hrs
Many thanks:-)
agree Jack Doughty
3 hrs
Many thanks:-)
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4 KudoZ points awarded for this answer. Comment: "Many thaks to everyone. Thank you, Gallagy."
+2
19 mins

This event has truned into a joke for us/ we consider this event as a joke between ourselves.

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Peer comment(s):

disagree AllegroTrans : No, the irony here is that this is not a joke at all, but an annoyance
2 hrs
agree philgoddard : It's a joke about something annoying. This is a perfectly good answer.
4 hrs
Thanks
agree Tony M : Yes, though it's important to keep in mind the ironic aspect too ;-)
8 hrs
Thanks
agree acetran
1 day 45 mins
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